Posts by Miz Feiler
“How Are You?”
“How Are You?” I received this simple message from a friend today and it paralysed me. It suddenly felt like a very loaded question. I delayed responding. I did not want to answer because I did not know how to. I wrote back a little while later, “I kind of feel these days that it depends…
Read More10 Things That Make Me Truly, Madly, Deeply Happy
Truly, Madly, Deeply Happy. Is it possible? I posted a hilarious video (below) from John Oliver last week about just how calamitous 2016 seems to have been in so many ways. When I posted it, a dear friend of mine, who practises gratitude daily, challenged me by saying that there are in fact millions of…
Read MoreRethinking The Glass Ceiling
The Conversation we need to have about the Glass Ceiling and the Week That Was Houston, we have a problem. A big, giant, black hole of a problem and I think I have figured out how to fix it. This is me and this is my view. I am on a retreat with women and…
Read More5 Ways I Have Turned My Health Around
By committing my mindset to strength, I am committing to a totally different way of eating and living; it has set my whole being free from the spiral of stupid diets and detoxes and starvation madness.
Read MoreModern Devices for the Maxer on the Go
Modern Devices for the Maxer on the Go I had to laugh as I looked at my desk to see three devices (sex toys) charging via USB alongside my iPhone and MacAir. My challenge: To test four devices and rate them. It was a task I took seriously. I’m worn out, but oh so happy. Here…
Read MoreMarriage: It Boils Down to Two Choices
Marriage: It Boils Down to Two Choices I have had three separate women in my life tell me over the past six months that their relationships with their husbands weren’t going well. This is not a shocking or surprising statement as the journey of marriage is a rocky ride filled with good and not so good…
Read More3 Ways to Improve Intimacy in Your Relationship
I have been thinking a lot about intimacy in relationships recently.Every relationship has its own unique dynamic, but what I am most intrigued by is the dynamic of communication within relationships. More specifically, what happens when you want to change that dynamic in your own relationship.
Read MoreNeed Relationship Advice? AUNTY ASK ME to the Rescue
Relationship Advice Column Aunty Ask Me is a new relationship advice column that we would like to become a regular feature of 40 To The Max. We ask for your support by submitting your anonymous relationship questions and also sharing it with your friends to get more exposure (so to speak!!) To provide meaningful responses, I…
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